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Long time no blogged about guys! I didn't have much to say. Even though the story I'm going to share dates from about a month ago or so, I was just thinking about it, because of other things I might be talking about in a near future. Maybe. We shall see. Yes, I'm a tease ;)

My friends at work are always trying to match me to the young fellows that enter the store. I guess it's their way of thinking that if I meet a suitor, I will stay with them in the village and not go back to London. They have no clue why I'm single... Oh yes, the question! Well, there is a thing called high standards and expectations. I don't see myself as an annoyingly fussy girl. But they do.

And clearly their standards (or taste) are not like mine. Sometimes (well ok most of the times), it's quite insulting. You should see the guys that they pointed me. God! Some were total losers. Come on! I'm not desperate. I'm not one of those girls (or guys, because I know one) that are just always thinking of being in a relationship.

For me, being in a relationship is about being with a person I admire. In a physical and mental way. Yes, you could say I'm shallow. Looks are important for me. They are important for everyone, if you are honest with yourself. Would you go out with someone that disgusts you?

I am repulsed by most guys wearing baseball caps. First you would think it's a superficial thing. It's not. If a guy isn't sporty but wears baseball caps, it tells me something about them I don't like. It's wrong. If your my friend Nancy, you would say, you can always take the baseball cap off. Yes you can, but then the type of guy is still the same.

So I'm sticking to my guns. I know my worth and I would just be miserable with a guy I know is not my type. Don't get me wrong. I go past my comfort zone, and go with the wait and see approach. You never know. But some things you can tell at first sight...

I can across this saying while browsing the Web. It sums up what I think. I refuse to go for just ok. I refuse mediocrity.

In the mean time, I have to go because my man Tony is waiting for me!

Please do share your opinons on setting standards and if you ever compromise on them.

I have now been single for almost a year now, and I'm kinda learning to date again. Fun fun fun! But I have to say I cannot believe how clueless some guys are when it is to women! (Ok, we don't totally understand them either, but some common sense is required)...

So I was thinking of putting a funny Facebook status, but since most of them are facebook friending me and it will be too long anyway, I decided to share it with you girls.  And if you want to share it with the guys in your life, go ahead!

Well, let's start!

If you offer a drink to a girl and she says "Thanks!" don't run way! What kind of guy is buying a drink and then disapear?

You also have the guy who is divorcing and trying to hit on me. Quite frankly, out of the blue, but your wife is on my Facebook, so don't even think about it!

One guy I was thinking of seeing this summer just decided to peep his head out of the hole and asked me to go for a drink. Just when he started seeing someone. Gee, why didn't you do something while you were single?

Then you have the guy I was actually dating this fall. I went to spend the weekend at his place (Quebec is so big, I live far away from everyone) to then spend the weekend at his parents playing Kinnect. I'm not 12 anymore!!!

Finally, you have the guys (yes, two of them) who decided it was a good idea to two-time 2 best friends.... I think this one is the most stupid of the lot... Anyway, I'm still talking to one of them, but the dammage it has done to my friendship is kinda hard to swallow. If a girl tells you "Oh you just added my best friend on FB" run! And if you are just trying to hit on one of your interest's best friend, this is just plain mean.

Fortunately, I'm not one to think that all guys are jerks! I know some good guys are out there, and I can't wait to meet them!

Any single ladies here with some interresting dating stories to share, or am I the only one stumbling on the daft ones?